fix(client): safeBack helper + prevent self-contact-request

1. GO_BACK warning & stuck screens

   When a deep link or direct push put the user on /feed/[id],
   /profile/[address], /compose, or /settings without any prior stack
   entry, tapping the header chevron emitted:
     "ERROR The action 'GO_BACK' was not handled by any navigator"
   and did nothing — user was stuck.

   New helper lib/utils.safeBack(fallback = '/(app)/chats') wraps
   router.canGoBack() — when there's history it pops; otherwise it
   replace-navigates to a sensible fallback (chats list by default,
   '/' for auth screens so we land back at the onboarding).

   Applied to every header chevron and back-from-detail flow:
   app/(app)/chats/[id], app/(app)/compose, app/(app)/feed/[id]
   (header + onDeleted), app/(app)/feed/tag/[tag],
   app/(app)/profile/[address], app/(app)/new-contact (header + OK
   button on request-sent alert), app/(app)/settings,
   app/(auth)/create, app/(auth)/import.

2. Prevent self-contact-request

   new-contact.tsx now compares the resolved address against
   keyFile.pub_key at two points:
     - right after resolveUsername + getIdentity in search() — before
       the profile card even renders, so the user doesn't see the
       "Send request" CTA for themselves.
     - inside sendRequest() as a belt-and-braces guard in case the
       check was somehow bypassed.
   The search path shows an inline error ("That's you. You can't
   send a contact request to yourself."); sendRequest falls back to
   an Alert with the same meaning. Both compare case-insensitively
   against the pubkey hex so mixed-case pastes work.

   Technically the server would still accept a self-request (the
   chain stores it under contact_in:<self>:<self>), but it's a dead-
   end UX-wise — the user can't chat with themselves — so the client
   blocks it preemptively instead of letting users pay the fee for
   nothing.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

client-app/app/(app)/feed/[id].tsx

@@ -31,6 +31,7 @@ import {
   fetchPost, fetchStats, bumpView, formatCount, formatFee,
   type FeedPostItem, type PostStats,
 } from '@/lib/feed';
+import { safeBack } from '@/lib/utils';
 
 export default function PostDetailScreen() {
   const insets = useSafeAreaInsets();
@@ -71,14 +72,14 @@ export default function PostDetailScreen() {
 
   const onDeleted = useCallback(() => {
     // Go back to feed — the post is gone.
-    router.back();
+    safeBack();
   }, []);
 
   return (
     <View style={{ flex: 1, backgroundColor: '#000000', paddingTop: insets.top }}>
       <Header
         divider
-        left={<IconButton icon="chevron-back" size={36} onPress={() => router.back()} />}
+        left={<IconButton icon="chevron-back" size={36} onPress={() => safeBack()} />}
         title="Post"
       />
 

client-app/app/(app)/feed/tag/[tag].tsx

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@ import { IconButton } from '@/components/IconButton';
 import { PostCard, PostSeparator } from '@/components/feed/PostCard';
 import { useStore } from '@/lib/store';
 import { fetchHashtag, fetchStats, type FeedPostItem } from '@/lib/feed';
+import { safeBack } from '@/lib/utils';
 
 export default function HashtagScreen() {
   const insets = useSafeAreaInsets();
@@ -80,7 +81,7 @@ export default function HashtagScreen() {
     <View style={{ flex: 1, backgroundColor: '#000000', paddingTop: insets.top }}>
       <Header
         divider
-        left={<IconButton icon="chevron-back" size={36} onPress={() => router.back()} />}
+        left={<IconButton icon="chevron-back" size={36} onPress={() => safeBack()} />}
         title={`#${tag}`}
       />